วันอังคารที่ 24 พฤศจิกายน พ.ศ. 2552

Vices and Virtues in Marriage - Jealousy vs Trust

Have you ever had to deal with a jealous husband or wife? Most marriages at a certain time or another go through a period of suspicion and jealousy when their spouse does something to deserve suspicion. Maybe they have flirted or maybe they had an affair or it could be that they do not do nothing to justify suspicion.

More often than not, when one spouse to the other without merit, it means that they lack confidence in herself jealous. If they do not trust themselves, they usuallyare jealous, suspicious, controlling, and insecure. This can be a nightmare for the spouse who has to take this kind of abuse. But it must not be so.

Ask your self. Why am I jealous? Why do I not trust my spouse? What have they done to deserve my suspicions about them? Maybe you have good reason to how you feel. But to have more than likely get your concerns about your spouse out of hand. We need to look at ourselves about the measures we take to be honestLife. The heart of the matter is that we either trust our spouse or we do not do it, there is no between here.

Where does confidence come from? Once the trust for your spouse is not just a feeling but an action is as good. We have to show by our actions that we show our spouse that we trust in them. It means that we are confident and secure enough to consider them with confidence. Trust is indeed a great virtue of character that holds a person.

Every day and everywhere the question of trust comes not onlyin marriage. Sometimes we just need the people confidence otherwise we can not achieve our goals in life, or believe, with the belief that we should move. It can be times when we again have to regain confidence for someone who has hurt us, and this means that we are to keep the power of trust in our character.

In marriage, unless otherwise earned, should the trust already a proven commitment by both spouses. Without trust and faith in marriage, there would be so much more uncertainBehavior in circulation, such as distrust, doubt, suspicion, lies, jealousy, possessiveness and control issues that the divorce would even begin to sound good. Divorce in the matter of jealousy and mistrust?

It is important that couples get to the bottom of why one spouse feels suspicious of others. I can tell you what I think and you'll probably shrug it off. But I have to say anyway. If we do not know who we are, we have no purpose or connection to the source, who we are, wetend to live on our own feelings, ideas, beliefs, and those things that our purpose is to satisfy himself. We have yet to feel any real wisdom and understanding why we feel bad, or do we make ourselves why we do what we do.

In a Peapod we are connected to self-determination and what our feelings tell us, and separated from our source tells us and what our source. But come to give our source, where our spiritual life, food and water. Our source is where we learn to grow fromthe selfish person who we are and in the loving person that we were becoming.

The inability to trust our spouse arises from the lack of Christ in our lives. It really is that simple. We have not yet come to religious fanatics as the loving people God meant for us to be. What we do not have to, but to accept, and so Jesus Christ into our lives by any means is easiest for us. What is so difficult about it?

Here's how it works. Enter your vices Jesus and he will then enter theVirtues of his nature. We bear the fruits of the living Christ in our spiritual life. In other words, a person's moral fiber is from what he believes and what he does, with those convictions.

There are many great virtues a man can live, and there are many bad vices a person can live. What I'm saying is if your spouse and mistrust often feel possessive and jealous of them, it is your opinion based on your own insecurities takeover. This does not needhappened.

Where can come insecurities? They are not coming from God, that's for sure, and they are not a fruit of the spiritual self, either. They come from the self. If we even doubt that we will eventually secure other. If I feel bad about who I am, I will often be of crucial importance, jealous, judgmental and jealous of others. These are the uncertainties that are creating jobs in our own minds.

It's not fair that our unsafe behavior, which we radiate love. That is why God gave us a veryas a special gift of the Holy Spirit. That is the Spirit of Christ within us. We have a choice. We can either lean on our own understanding of the orientation and behave selfishly, or we can always by the vice itself, and one with Jesus Christ. Jesus is the virtues of character that I have spoken.

[The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousy, fits of rage, selfishAmbition, dissensions, factions and envy, drinking, eating and life. I warn you, as I imagine that those who live it, do not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-ands.] Galatians 5:19-22

The question we should ask ourselves, then I would probably rather my spouse and feel bad about myself and marriage, or trust my spouse and feel good about my husband, myMe and my marriage? We have a choice.

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วันพฤหัสบดีที่ 19 พฤศจิกายน พ.ศ. 2552

The Stages of Civil Litigation

Getting started can be involved in a process, a very stressful situation, regardless of which side you are on. To limit exposure, it is often helpful to understand the process and stages of the litigation.

What is civil litigation? Civil litigation is a process in which a party requests an action for damages against another party. The damage can come in the form of money or the modification of some type of behavior. For example, you can sue for breach of contract if another party does not meet the conditionsa written agreement. You can also sue for an injunction to bar a competitor with the help of various business property such as intellectual property rights. It is important that civil litigation is not a criminal case, namely, the party loses the case does not go to jail.

The first phase of civil litigation is the pleading stage. The pleading stage simply refers to the filing of the complaint against the party that the defendant. The defendant then has the right to disputecertain elements of this appeal. The defendant can object on the grounds that the complaint failed to state a frivolous action against them, or questions not included in the language of the complaint, to name just a few arguments. At this point, the Court will either request to be with or without merit. If the court throws the applicant's complaint of the plaintiff is usually allowed to change the language, and it refiler.

The next stage of civil litigationDiscovery. Discovery is simply the process of learning what evidence each side has regarding the dispute. In general, a party may ask, has all the supporting documents the other side and see ask them questions. Questions may in writing by an instrument known as an interrogation in demand. Questions may also be asked orally known by the party in a legal process as a deposit. Other methods of discovery also request for admissions, special interrogatories andvarious other methods specific to your condition. Yep, all rules are generated by state puts in most cases.

After the discovery comes to an end, the defendants often file something like a motion for summary judgment known. A summary judgment motion is simply an argument of the defendant that the evidence provided by the plaintiff in the case, does not support a claim against the defendant. On the way to the summary ruling, the Court finds the law on the books and documents that providedPlaintiff. She considers the evidence in a light most favorable to the plaintiff before the decision. If the court finds in favor of the defendants in the action brought about. At this point, the plaintiff can either abandon the application or file an appeal to a higher court has the matter.

Under the assumption that the applicant has survived a motion for summary judgment, the next technical step is a process, to actually go to trial. Before this happens, the parties are usually sent to aArbitration hearing at which a mediator tries to cut a deal between the parties. This procedure is also known as a settlement conference. If they settlement can not be reached, the court then the matter before the court and off you go.

At the end of the day, the average civil lawsuit will take a while to get from the filing of the complaint in court. The exact time will be on the state you live in and how busy the courts are dependent. Criminal cases tend to take precedent Civil --Questions, you can often wait a while. In fact, it is often a year or more before a civil court case in court.



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วันเสาร์ที่ 14 พฤศจิกายน พ.ศ. 2552

Cultural Differences: Different Time 'Zones' (Part-2)

The author is an attempt to analyze HRM practices of the United States, India and Japan made in the context of cultural differences in perception of time. The choice of these cultures were on the fact that USA is traditionally recognized as the M-time culture, India as a P-time culture, while Japan is a mixture of M-time and P-time behavior. However, these cultures do not exist in isolation, and time perception in these cultures are influenced and modified by cross-borderTrade and other interactions.

The impact of the difference in the perception of time in different cultures can be wide organization that are aimed at individuals, or task centric.

Study1:

Human Resource Management Practices in Japan

The influence of the elements of culture such as collectivism, can remove the medium levels of power and avoid the high uncertainty, are easily seen in the Japanese HRM practices.

The Japanese HRM practices of lifetime employment, focusing onTrainability of the workforce and the high amount of stress on training, show the influence of the time dimension of culture, alongside the other elements of the Hofstede study. When the Japanese think it's normal to spend a year to decide important questions about long-term employment in order to preserve continuity in the choices and visions. The importance of continuity of employment is connected in the practice of seniority wages and promotion (Nenko system) on the hand. The same problemwould be to back the policy of the company unions in Japan (eg Aoki, 1992b). The principle features of the company are the unions that the membership to regular employees, excluding temporary and part time limited. There is only one union in the organization and employees' unions tend to have a cooperative attitude towards the administration, though in material terms, they seem to provide good services to their members.


Japanese job classification is simple and broad. ThusThe tasks are much more flexible in comparison with Western bureaucratic norms (Cole 1979, Lincoln 1986, Aoki 1986). It is expected to change a variety of job functions and frequent assignment as part of their regular daily operations to accept. This fits into the concept of P-time, where the simultaneous occurrence is acceptable by many things and multi-skilled workforce is the norm. Multi-skilled workers, apart from the self-motivation and encouragingDynamics in the staff, facilitate job rotation and substitution in case of absence of the team members, to the reliable production.

The training is an important part of HRM in Japan and frequently uses both on-the-job training (OJT), which are continuous, and regular off-the-job training (Off-JT). This is the future-oriented mentality in Japan, where the functions such as training are part of the care of his executives, conducted with a far-sightedIntent.


For compensation and rewards in Japan, which are both merit and seniority criteria, although the share of earnings increase, may increase in case of a total take up to 60% (Shirai 1992), shows M-time orientation. An employee skill-grade pay is another component of his pay in addition to the salary and fringe benefits. This skill-grade or pay shikakukyu are affected by the supervisor evaluation. Although this art-grade numbers may appear to be similar to the job basePayment of the USA is different because it is based on the value of the person himself and not on the value of the work of the person. This is the characteristic of the P-time culture in which people and relationships to gain priority over the shops.


The presence of codified rules and practices legitimized all work to bring the M-time elements of Japanese culture. This is called the employment bureaucracy used to rationalize and bring the Japanese employment predictability and controllability tothe behavior of key stakeholders, employees and employers.


Study2: Human Resource Management practices in the U.S.


U.S. high up on power distance, uncertainty avoidance and individualism and low. Therefore, USA has been traditionally been rewarded as an aggressive company employees for individual performance with negligible impact group performance. The perspective of time is very monochrone, with time delays associated with such hazards as laterResidues, poor organization and technical complexity. A delay in decision-making is a sign of low interest in the task. Thus the failure of activities such as joint decision-making and decentralization of decision making in the United States was predicted, because it could have been the call for too much time to reach a consensus. Not surprisingly, American labor relations were described as adversarial, as a relationship of confrontation can be little room for workersParticipation or for union activities within a company, with the exception of the appeal.


With regard to the strategic importance of HR a larger group of HR organizations (P. Devereaux Jennings and Larry F. Moore) are either not involved in such fundamental decisions, such as work redesign, or they have no control over the process of implementation. Sun shows the low priority given to personnel management and development in the strategic planning level.
Prepare to use firms in the U.S.,highly formalized, internal control procedures of employment in order to regulate their internal labor markets. Preparation of working title, rule, procedure, rights and duties are the means for guiding the workers in the system. This includes the use of testing and the use of long-term provisions for seniority. In a survey conducted by P. Devereaux Jennings and Larry F. Moore, over 90% of companies were entering, transfer, and exit the market and atleast 80% moderate control over these enterprisesPractices. Companies use compensation and benefits practices under the control of the HR departments. However, job evaluation, job description, job enlargement and job enrichment seems to be less under the control of the HR department as under the control of other units. So kind of control that the company is available in more than employment is still bureaucratic indication monochronic time perception, with rigid and fixed-term approach to the tasks.


But it seems the scene of the HRM in U.S.to be in a state of transition. The managers are forced to recruit from a shrinking resource pool; dealing with a greater diversity and staff can help employees balance work and family (Wagels and Levin 1990). Showing increased sensitivity to people issues at work. Further on this note, the future development of HRM in the U.S. indicate a developing kind of a clan culture stresses cause long-term professional commitment, continuous learning and international competitiveness, that woldfor the employee to an organization of citizens (Kunda 1992, Lincoln and Kalleberg 1991). These projections indicate a greater acceptance and tolerance P-time element at work. This could take to the hypothesis of the convergence of cultures and thus the HRM practices are attributed to all nations.


Study 3: Human Resources Management Practices in India
India ranks low on power distance and medium to individuality, aspects of the work place. The situation in India is unique, with mostThe company is here, the public sector units or family run businesses. The liberation of the economy has too many multi-national organizations and offices in India, but also many of the HR practices in these organizations are still influenced by the cultural perception of time.


The traditional state-owned companies are bureaucratic and HRM practices are more rational and systematic, similar to those followed in the M-, time, and this is the legacy of the long BritishRule and the existence of the caste system and the horizontal resultant social hierarchy in Indian society. The company and thus the HRM policy in practice to carry polychronic time tilted.


The burden of relationships and people are obviously directly examined the recruitment and selection stage in an organization, since up to 52% of the organization in a study cited personal interview is the preferred method for selection. Seniority and power are the mostimportant criteria for compensation and incremental decisions.


Since a large part of the industrial blue-collar workers are unskilled or their wages are determined on the basis of industry-cum-region. "The wages of unskilled workers connected to a certain extent with the job evaluation. The wages for workers and employees provide basic wages and inflation compensation tied to the fluctuation in the cost of living index, incentives for production and the connection with the annualBonus. The average wages are supplemented by overtime compensation. This correlation of income to economic fluctuations and the tradition of employee bonus on important festivals are the highlights included the importance of human aspects in the work. The prevailing practice of employee participation in management and in collective bargaining and the presence of many influential trade unions in India to confirm this aspect of the work. Job shifts, and the cuts were never in possession of the StateCompanies and family businesses, where the employer expects that they take care of the employees. Formal participation of the employer or senior in the organization of the events of joy or sorrow of the family of the employee was general, and this element is preserved in most of the newer private companies. The exercise is to work it as a goal in itself, so little


It is on issues such as job satisfaction or multi-skilled workers aid paid to job -Rotation.


Most Indian companies are relying on on-job training. With the availability of a large pool of skilled manpower, many companies had been trained as a risky and wasteful, this could explain the reliance on over-the-job training. This and the lack of exit interviews and staff research could considered to have little or no planning in HRM issues as evidence of a lack of future-oriented mentality.
The recently arrived MNC have a change in the perception of time, atleast conducted in the workplace.Now issues such as technicians' salaries are generally divided on the job analysis or job evaluation and management salaries are the qualifications and responsibilities within the organization.

Along with changing the world, India is showing mixed perceptions of time, as the business meetings would start on time, but remain the personal element into the business.


Conclusion The deep-rooted ideas that have shaped cultures, it would melt it difficult toForm together in a universal time-perception. But the desire for uniformity or introduce these issues are at the forefront in the minds of managers dealing with various issues of international HRM, ranging from the management of subsidiaries, the training of expatriates. The slow progress in the acceptance of similar mixed-time performance, at least in the place of work is visible.

While on the one hand the promotion of Japan's dynamism, foresight, hard work and observance of the rules onOn the other hand value on relationships, set broad job descriptions, decentralization and respect for seniority.


HRM practices in the U.S. show a similar trend, either bound in a greater tolerance towards the trade unions or in raids in the construction business. Similar trends in India are in the direction of a rapprochement with monochronic work stations, which forced the introduction of competition for the state-owned enterprises from the private sector companies, including MNCs.



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วันพุธที่ 11 พฤศจิกายน พ.ศ. 2552

Medical Malpractice Chronicles Number Two

There are some malpractice suits, are justified. If a real fault situation occurs, the settlement is certainly reasonable. How many colors are frivolous in nature. This means that the application is submitted in the near future a nuisance, rather than to earn. When this happens, the lawyers have to calculate how much will it cost to comment on the matter, and how much it comes to costs in the event to regulate.

Often the cost of defending the case is clearly more thanResolving it. In these cases, the attorneys will recommend that they be paid. But this goes on then the doctor will record as a medical malpractice suit that was settled by the court and all regulations increase insurance premiums.

A friend of mine had a patient who fell off a construction site severely fracturing the leg. He was put in a cast and the physician, appropriate, ensuring that the voices were not too tight. I do not know the full details of the exception thatThen, the foot had to be amputated, I was told by the arterial injury secondary to the severe fractures of the leg. The lawsuit alleges against the doctor that the reason the foot has been amputated, that the cast too narrowly, and the doctor does not bring the case close enough. My friend told me that he made sure that was not the occupation of the problem, but he was sued anyway, because they cast was too tight. He had been informed unofficially that the patient would receivesubstantial amount of money to sue the doctor, instead of the construction company. The orthopedic surgeon was told that this information could be presented in court.

They have then had to sue the doctor and a great solution has been reached. When this happens, the system yields a very significant increase in malpractice insurance premiums. This reduces the overhead to be met in practice, has increased, and causes of the medical fees are charged to it.As was the case, the prosecutor came to my friend and told him that this was not personal, and this is just "business". My friend is very bitter, since at that.

If an action is pending, the no merit, there are many aspects that are not acceptable. Apart from the possibility that the information can be placed in the local newspaper and the reputation of individual harm, he may talk of the neighborhood. A big problem is when theChildren hear about this suit and tell her friends, her father is a bad doctor.

Another aspect that is very important are the many, many sleepless nights that occur. The time spent will be reviewed, what have I done, what should be done and how this could be prevented. The usual is that it probably wait another 2 to 3 years, is known from the time the suit until he goes to court. This is a very stressful time, especially if it is not justified.



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